Embracing Stoicism: My Journey to Becoming a Drummer
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Chapter 1: The Early Years of Musical Discovery
For much of my life, I believed that drumming and music were innate talents that some individuals possessed from a young age. While I still think that certain people may have a natural inclination towards music, I was not among those who effortlessly picked up an instrument. Despite growing up in a family rich in musical tradition—with a father who was a musician and a younger brother who was musically gifted—I lacked the initial interest to pursue it.
Although I always had a good ear for music, maintaining rhythm and feeling the beat, it wasn't until I reached my early twenties that I truly began exploring the world of drumming.
In the early days of familiarizing myself with a drum set, I encountered a profound quote often attributed to Aristotle:
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit."
Interestingly, I later learned that this was actually a paraphrase by Will Durant. The original sentiment from Aristotle was more nuanced:
"As it is not one swallow or a fine day that makes a spring, so it is not one day or a short time that makes a man blessed and happy."
Section 1.1: The Stoic Influence
It may come as a surprise, but what truly motivated me to delve into drumming was my study of Stoic philosophy. Growing up in a household filled with music certainly played a role, but Stoicism gave me the determination to actively pursue this craft.
Though Aristotle didn’t label himself a Stoic, the ancient Stoics embraced his insights. Epictetus, in his work "Discourses," articulated this concept further:
"Every habit and capability is confirmed and grows in its corresponding actions; walking by walking, running by running... thus, if you wish to achieve something, cultivate the habit, and if not, then choose another habit instead. The same principle applies to our mindset."
This philosophy emphasizes that we become what we aspire to be through our actions. If you wish to be a builder, you must start constructing. If you aim to be a chef, begin by cooking at home. If you desire to be a drummer, it all starts with playing the drums.
Subsection 1.1.1: Taking the First Steps
Section 1.2: The Commitment to Practice
So, I embarked on my drumming journey, motivated by my desire to be a drummer. I understood that achieving this goal would require dedication and hard work. It may sound simplistic, perhaps even cliché, but I often find myself pondering whether I can confidently identify as a drummer. I follow that thought with a self-reflective question: "Do I actually play the drums regularly?"
Though I might not respond aloud, these inquiries lead me to the answer I seek. Yes, I do play the drums, so I am indeed a drummer. The journey of learning is ongoing; mastery is elusive, and embracing the reality that there is always more to learn is essential. This humility is what cultivates true mastery.
No matter what your passion is, you can claim that identity. Enjoy cooking? If you prepare meals for yourself and your loved ones, you are a cook. With effort, you could elevate that to becoming a chef! Want to build? Start constructing projects! The concept is straightforward, but the execution can be challenging.
Chapter 2: Motivation Through Learning
In this video titled "How To Stay Motivated with Your Drumming! - FREE Drum Lesson," you'll discover techniques to maintain your enthusiasm for drumming, ensuring you stay engaged and committed to your practice.
Chapter 3: Mastering the Craft
The second video, "Ask Earl Anything - Bass Drum Beaters, Listening Habits, Reading Music, Click vs Flowing," dives into various aspects of drumming, offering insights that can enhance your skills and understanding of the craft.