The Value of Solitude

"Do you suggest I retreat from public life and only find joy in my own thoughts?" you inquire. "How can I contribute to the world by distancing myself from society?"

This dilemma isn't as contradictory as it may seem. My intent in seeking solitude is to carve out a space conducive to impactful work. Being alone doesn’t equate to squandering time; rather, it allows me to reflect deeply and contribute ideas for the benefit of future generations.

In a world where so many are preoccupied with their phones, I strive to clear the path ahead, minimizing obstacles that might cause unnecessary stumbling.

I would advise them: Let go of worrying about others' opinions, and define your own measures of success and happiness.

Instead of celebrating your recent promotion, consider if you're merely gilding your chains. Are you mistaking your luxurious restraints for progress? To live a fulfilling life, you must reject the conventional symbols of success that ensnare so many.

We often believe that material possessions will bring us joy, but they merely intensify our cravings. The emptiest feast is the one acquired at the expense of your life’s work. Furthermore, maintaining a lavish lifestyle can tie you to a relentless treadmill, where the bar is always raised.

A guiding principle should be this: prioritize practicality over aesthetics. Your own two feet or a bicycle can often serve you just as well as a luxury car, and they are much easier to park. A simple cheese sandwich by a serene lake can provide as much satisfaction as an extravagant meal of foie gras and lobster. A Timex can tell time just as well as a Patek Philippe grand complication chronograph.

Adapt your life to find success in simplicity, and you will cultivate a mindset of sufficiency.

You may wonder, “How do I balance contemplative living with the necessity of paying bills?” Just as the opposite of busyness isn’t idleness, relinquishing desires doesn’t mean you are free from needs.

It is commendable to work in alignment with your natural abilities to support yourself. The fulfillment that comes from a job well done is a reward in itself, in addition to keeping your finances stable, and it is also one path to discovering purpose.

When I draw lessons for myself and future generations, am I not offering a more significant contribution than merely reviewing contracts, drafting reports, or engaging in social media disputes?

Trust that those who are often unseen in public life may be engaged in more profound endeavors.

Now, I pause to offer a thoughtful contribution. I share not from my own insights but echo the wisdom of Confucius:

"The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large."

You might wonder why I reference other philosophers so frequently instead of sticking solely to Stoic texts. If the ancient Greeks and Romans didn’t claim to possess every valuable thought, why should we?

Nothing brings me greater joy than recognizing that profound insights have surfaced from every corner of the globe throughout history. I willingly explore the philosophical treasures of Asia, Europe, and the Americas, and my journeys have proven rewarding.

You, my earnest learner, are welcome to this wisdom as a gift to be shared, not hoarded.

From the teachings of Japanese Zen, I have gathered this gem:

"To a sincere student, every day is a fortunate day. Time passes but he never lags behind. Neither glory nor shame can move him."

Be well.

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