Transform Your Life with Two Powerful Affirmations
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Chapter 1: Embracing Change
Change is often more challenging than we anticipate, akin to the difficulty of gaining admission to Harvard Law School. The journey of self-transformation can feel like a steep uphill battle. However, without acknowledging the need for change, we may find ourselves stagnating in less-than-ideal circumstances. What makes the acceptance of change so difficult?
One reason is that acknowledging the need for change can severely bruise our ego. Another reason is that we might feel our current state is adequate, or at least we think it is. From my own experience, admitting to a weakness can feel like a personal indictment, suggesting that I am a "bad person," which leads to feelings of despair.
What if I could persuade myself that having weaknesses doesn't define my worth? This concept is easier to articulate than to truly embrace. When I confront my flaws, I often find myself in discomfort, preferring to maintain the status quo rather than face the challenges of self-improvement.
Yet, it is crucial to recognize that if we allow our imperfections to persist, we hinder our personal growth.
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Section 1.1: The Power of Self-Love
Louise Hay provides a beneficial affirmation that addresses this issue:
"I Love Myself"
No matter who I am today, I love myself. Regardless of my past mistakes, I love myself. Who loves me or doesn't, I love myself. In any circumstance, I love myself. Therefore, it follows that despite any flaws I may have, I love myself.
When I repeat this affirmation multiple times, I gradually become more at ease with myself, making it easier to acknowledge my imperfections. This acceptance paves the way for taking constructive action.
Louise suggests that affirmations should be recited in front of a mirror. Though some may feel silly or uncomfortable doing this, I found it to be a valuable practice.
Section 1.2: Openness to Change
What about the other side of self-love? Could a strong sense of self-love lead to narcissism? This is where Louise's second affirmation comes into play:
"I Am Open to Change"
While I love myself, I also embrace the idea of transformation. I am committed to improving myself. I am open to becoming kinder. I am open to enhancing my listening skills. I am open to vulnerability. I am open to working on my shortcomings. I am open to evolving into a better person.
Chapter 2: Harmonizing Affirmations
These two affirmations complement each other remarkably well. Together, they help us accept our flaws and recognize the necessity for change. However, the journey has only just begun. Accepting the need for transformation is merely the first step.
Taking that initial step becomes more manageable when I affirm:
"I Love Myself"
"I Am Open to Change"
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